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I saw the best minds of my generation utterly baffled by nothing else will do – developments

It has been fourteen months since we last had a perplexing piece of adoption case law which scrambled the brains – which in the context of what’s been going on in adoption law since 2013 represents an almost One Hundred Years of Solitude rest from mind-f**kery.

In the words of Ser Arthur Dayne, the Sword of the Morning “now it begins”

(we are not going to hear from young Ned Stark yet, saying “no, now it ends” – we may never hear that)

Clearly everything from Re B onwards is the fault of Bran Stark and his Three Eyed Raven powers. Great job, Bran.

Re B (A child) (Care Proceedings) 2018

I will stress at the outset that nothing in this case says “A Court should ALWAYS do this”, it says instead that the Court, if they give good reasons for it and a careful judgment “CAN do this”

Basically, little girl B, born in spring 2016. She has a biological brother, H who was born in 2015 and adopted in 2016. Birth parents ruled out in care proceedings on B. H’s adopters wanted to adopt B.

There were family members, paternal cousins I and R, who were a realistic and viable option to care for B.

I’ll make it clear that the judgment we have gives us ABSOLUTELY NO INFORMATION about why the parents were considered not suitable to care for B or why H was adopted. We don’t have any information that would allow us to even speculate about that. Mother and father were both represented, and they were both at the appeal supporting a placement with I and R, rather than seeking to care themselves for B.

The Court at first instance was grappling with the competing arguments

(a) It is better for B to grow up with her full biological sibling for life, even if that means adoption OR
(b) It is better for B to grow up within her biological extended family, even if that means not growing up with her sibling

The prospective adopters sought to be made parties to the proceedings, but that was refused. The Courts have given guidance on this, notably in Re T (A Child) (Early Permanence Placement) [2015] EWCA Civ 983, [2017] 1 FLR 330

“The care judge is concerned at most with consideration of adoption in principle, not with evaluating the merits of particular proposed adopters. There is no need for the prospective adopters to be joined, for it is the children’s guardian … who has the task, indeed is under the duty, of subjecting the local authority’s care plan to rigorous scrutiny and, where appropriate, criticism.”
7.I went on to recognise (Re T, para 51) that there might be “an exceptional case justifying [a] departure from the general approach”, echoing in this respect what Wilson LJ had said in Re A, para 35:

“To say that the credentials of proposed adopters may exceptionally need to be considered in care proceedings in order that the court should better be able to reach the central decision whether the child should be removed from his family and adopted is not to say that care or indeed placement proceedings are an appropriate forum for resolution of an issue between a proposed adopter and the local authority as to the merits of her candidacy.”

In effect, the Court isn’t carrying out a beauty contest between what prospective adopters can offer and what the alternatives are – the Court has to look at the issue of whether adoption is necessary without considering the particular merits that adopters bring to bear.

In this case, however, making it different to Re T, the prospective adopters were caring for a biological sibling H. So the issue wasn’t about what the qualities of the ADOPTERS were, but what the benefits to B might be of growing up with a sibling.

The relevant parts of the welfare checklist from the Adoption and Children Act 2002 are set out below

11.Those sections provide as follows:

“The court … must have regard to the following matters (among others) –

(c) the likely effect on the child (throughout his life) of having ceased to be a member of the original family and become an adopted person,

(f) the relationship which the child has with relatives, and with any other person in relation to whom the court … considers the relationship to be relevant, including –

(i) the likelihood of any such relationship continuing and the value to the child of its doing so,

(ii) the ability and willingness of any of the child’s relatives, or of any such person, to provide the child with a secure environment in which the child can develop, and otherwise to meet the child’s needs,

(iii) the wishes and feelings of any of the child’s relatives, or of any such person, regarding the child.”

So the Court HAS to consider all of the family relationships that might continue for B and the value of them doing so – the parents, I and R AND H.

The Local Authority and the Guardian both urged the Court to consider that the benefits for B of growing up with a full sibling were considerable and tipped the balance towards this being a plan of adoption.

The Judge recognised the last seismic adoption authority, Re W

12.The judge next embarked upon a careful analysis of the evidence (judgment, paras 28-35). It requires to be read in full, but for present purposes I can concentrate on the evidence of the children’s guardian, which the judge described (para 34) as “very thoughtful”. She continued (paras 34-35):

“34 … She said that placement with [R] and [I] is a realistic option, they are an open and generous couple, but her professional judgment is that the advantages for [B] of a full sibling relationship outweigh the advantages of a placement with [R] and [I].

35 She was careful to point out that her recommendation did not turn on an assessment of [I] and [R], but the weight to be attached to the two competing factors set out in Sections 1(4)(c) and (f) of the 2002 Act. She had balanced on the one hand the effect of [B] having ceased to be a member of her original birth family mitigated in this case by the big plus of a lifelong relationship with her full sibling and closest relative and, on the other hand, the relationships she has with her relatives, the likelihood of those relationships continuing and the value to the child in them doing so. If [H] had not already been placed for adoption in a placement willing to take [B], the Guardian would support a placement with [I] and [R]. It would have been under a Care Order because currently the placement is untested. That would result in a period of uncertainty for [B]. Taking into account the research on the importance of the sibling bond and all the circumstances of this case she attached more weight to the sibling relationship, which led her to conclude that adoption was necessary.”
13.The judge thus correctly recognised (paras 26, 34) that a family placement with I and R was a viable and realistic option. In that context, it is important to appreciate the point made by McFarlane LJ in Re W (A Child) [2016] EWCA Civ 793, paras 70-71:

“70 With respect to them, it is clear to me that both the Children’s Guardian and the ISW fell into serious error by misunderstanding the need to evaluate the question of A’s future welfare by affording due weight to all of the relevant factors and without applying any automatic “presumption” or “right” for a child to be brought up by a member of her natural family. The extracts from the reports of both of these witnesses indicate that they determined their recommendation for A on just that basis. Mrs Fairbairn repeatedly described the child as having a “right” to be brought up by the natural family where there is a viable placement available. The Guardian advised that adoption is not in A’s best interests because the grandparents can provide her with a home. Putting the correct position in lay terms, the existence of a viable home with the grandparents should make that option “a runner” but should not automatically make it “a winner” in the absence of full consideration of any other factor that is relevant to her welfare; the error of the ISW and the Guardian appears to have been to hold that “if a family placement is a ‘runner’, then it has to be regarded as a ‘winner'”.

71 The repeated reference to a ‘right’ for a child to be brought up by his or her natural family, or the assumption that there is a presumption to that effect, needs to be firmly and clearly laid to rest. No such ‘right’ or presumption exists. The only ‘right’ is for the arrangements for the child to be determined by affording paramount consideration to her welfare throughout her life (in an adoption case) in a manner which is proportionate and compatible with the need to respect any ECHR Art 8 rights which are engaged.”

(The Court of Appeal judgment doesn’t get into the ‘fulcrum’ metaphor which permeated Re W, in particular where the balance falls in a case BEFORE placement order is made and child placed – remember that in Re W, the child by that stage had been placed with prospective adopters. )

The trial Judge decided that it was in B’s interests to make the Care Order and Placement Order, so that B could grow up with H.

15.The judge then set out (paras 56-62) her analysis of the “pros and cons of an adoptive placement.” She began with this (paras 56-57):

“56 One advantage of adoption is that [B] will be brought up with her nearest relative, a full sibling. This would mean that she would never be alone, she would have the shared experiences of being brought up in the same household, which will promote identity and self-esteem. The research which I have been referred to suggests that the sibling relationship is emotionally powerful and critically important, not only in childhood but over the course of a lifetime. People spend more time with their siblings than anyone else. Growing up with a sibling enables one to learn social skills, sharing and managing conflict and negotiating. The relationship can provide a significant source of continuity throughout a child’s lifetime and is likely to be the longest relationship most people experience.

57 For children going into care it is generally accepted that siblings should be placed together unless it is contrary to an individual child’s welfare needs. A shared history and experiences help self-identity and self-esteem because siblings provide support and companionship. An adoptive placement with her brother would mitigate against the loss of the relationship with her parents. This would be a lifelong relationship with her brother which would be promoted. The impact of becoming an adopted person, with the severance of legal and emotional ties with her parents and family, would also be mitigated by the shared experience of being with her brother.”
16.As against that (para 61):

“The disadvantages of an adoption placement include severance of the links with the biological family. This can mean a real sense of loss, particularly to children when they get older and realise that they have not brought up within their biological family. It can also have a negative impact on their sense of identity and belonging. It will result in a loss of [B]’s relationship with her parents because there would be no direct contact with them. There would be a probable loss of contact with the extended family because it is unlikely that [B] will have contact with her half-siblings or with [I] and [R] and their family.”
17.The judge concluded with a section (paras 63-69) headed “Decision.” She began (paras 63-64):

“63 In the final analysis the court must decide whether the advantages associated with the sibling relationship outweigh the relationship with other family members: the parents, half-siblings, [I] and the wider family. This is the balancing exercise between the factors set out in Sections 1(4)(c) and (f) of the 2002 Act. I have already set out the benefits of the sibling relationship. Although there is no existing relationship between the siblings once the children are living in the same household one is likely to develop rapidly, given their closeness in age. I acknowledge the argument that to prioritise the relationship with a brother will be at the expense of all other family relationships. They do not have an existing relationship which can currently be given weight to, but rather the potential for a unique relationship lasting throughout their lives which the Guardian and social worker say should be prioritised.

64 The reality and quality of a continuing relationship with other family members is very relevant here therefore. As I have identified already, the relationship with her parents is likely to be very limited. [Her father] is likely to be in [Africa], so contact will be indirect with possible occasional visits to [Africa] … Contact with the mother is likely to be either non-existent or problematic and potentially disruptive and unsettling. [B] has no existing relationship with her half-siblings, but only the potential for one. That is likely to be very limited. Those children are all quite a bit older than her and may or may not develop a bond.”
18.She continued (paras 66-67):

“66 When considering [B]’s welfare throughout her life the scales tip in favour of prioritising the relationship with her brother for all the positive advantages that will bring her set out above. What makes this case particularly difficult and finely balanced is the cultural dimension. However, a close examination of what benefits [B] would actually derive from a placement with [I] and [R] reveals that [and she then set out various matters which I do not propose to repeat as they might lead to the identification of the family. She went on:] The practicalities and financial cost of frequent visits to [Africa] may prove problematic.

67 Whilst a placement with [H] does not provide the cultural match which a placement with [I] could offer, the adopters have some cultural similarities and living with her brother would boost her identity because of growing up with her closest relative. His heritage and identity and early childhood experience of a foster placement at birth and then one stable placement afterwards, exactly mirrors her own. All this has led me to conclude that this is the over-riding requirement pertaining to [B]’s best interests throughout her life. Having reached that conclusion, I am satisfied that an adoption order is necessary to meet [B]’s needs and proportionate in all the circumstances of the case.”
19.The judge concluded as follows (paras 68-69):

“68 Whilst this is more interventionist than a placement with [I] and [R], it has the benefit of permanency now. There will be no further delay. It will avoid the testing out of a placement with [I] and [R] and reduce the risks and uncertainties for [B] all of which adds weight to the decision that I have come to.

The father and I and R appealed – understandably on the basis that the Court had not squared the case with the “nothing else will do” principle – but rather had decided that Placement Order was the better of two choices.

The Court of Appeal, lead judgment by the President, praised the careful and analytical approach of the trial Judge and upheld the decision. It was permissible for a Judge to give more weight to the option of B being placed with a sibling than B being placed within the family (even where there was a viable and realistic alternative family placement)

23.The central core of the father’s complaint relates to the judge’s application – in his counsel’s submissions, her misapplication – of the principles in Re T, the essence of the complaint being that the judge had, in conflict with those principles, treated the matter as a competition between the adopters and the kinship carers and, illegitimately, been drawn into an inquiry as to which would be the ‘better’ placement. As the passages from her judgment (judgment, paras 20, 21 and 25) which I have set out demonstrate, that is not what the judge said she was doing or what she thought she was doing. Nor, in my judgment, is that what she was in fact doing. On the contrary, she was carefully, conscientiously and, in my judgment, correctly applying the learning in Re T.

24.How else was the judge to proceed? She was confronted with the fact – the reality – that B’s only full sibling, H, a sibling close to her in age, had been adopted and that H’s adoptive parents were willing to adopt B. That was not something the judge could ignore, as it were put out of her mind, if she was to comply with her statutory duty under section 1(4) and in particular section 1(4)(f) of the 2002 Act. And in having regard to that objective, factual, reality, the judge was doing nothing inconsistent with the learning in Re T and the earlier authorities to which I have referred.

25.As Mr Tyler and Ms James pointedly observe, there is nothing in Re T to say that the court can ignore a crucial factor which is necessarily concomitant with a particular placement. The presence of H in B’s life must fall in the credit side of the balance sheet in relation to placement with H’s adopters, just as the loss of H must fall in the debit side in relation to the kinship placement; to ignore this would, they say, be a nonsense. I agree.

26.Complaint is also made, in particular by Ms Fottrell and Ms MacLynn, that the judge never grappled with the question of whether adoption per se was required for B and, in consequence, that she truncated the adoption process and, in effect, approached the case as if she was deciding an adoption application and on the assumption that, immediately following the making of the placement order, B would be placed for adoption by H’s adoptive parents. I do not agree. The judge was well aware that she was considering only the making (if appropriate) of care and placement orders as a prelude to the entirely separate adoption proceedings which, if she made those orders, would no doubt follow in due course. And, in circumstances where the fact and reality was that H had been adopted by those who were offering a similar placement for B, the distinction between adoption per se and adoption by H’s adoptive parents is more apparent than real.

27.The father complains that the process adopted by the judge meant that she ended up weighing the ‘known’ uncertainties in respect of the proposed kinship carers against the certainties of the adoptive placement. That, it is said, was an unfair half-way house; the judge, on this approach, should have embarked upon a full welfare evaluation and comparison of each prospective placement. I do not agree. The judge knew all that she needed to know about the possible placement with H’s adoptive parents to be able properly to carry out, and in a manner compatible with Re T, the task she was embarked upon. Indeed, to go further into that aspect of the matter than she did would have risked offending against the principle in Re T.

28.In relation to the other grounds of appeal I can be quite brief. The father complains that the judge erred in prioritising B’s relationship with H over her relationships with her wider family, in placing too much emphasis on the sibling relationship, and in attaching too little weight to ‘nothing else will do’. I do not agree. The judge did not prioritise either of these placements – both, it is to be noted, family placements – over the other. She treated each as being viable and realistic and carefully evaluated the competing evidence and arguments before coming to her conclusion. The fact that her conclusion favoured X rather than Y does not mean that the judge was prioritising X over Y. Her conclusion that, in all the circumstances, B’s future relationship with H throughout their lives tipped the balance and was determinative of the outcome, was, in my judgment, securely founded in the evidence the judge had heard and, as I have already said, was plainly open to her.

29.I can take the two remaining grounds – that the judge placed too much weight on the ‘untested’ nature of the placement with I and R while failing to acknowledge that the placement with H’s adopters was equally untested; and that she was too focused on avoiding the potential delay and failed to balance the purpose of such delay to B’s best interests – together. The judge, in my judgment, was entitled to have regard to these factors, and it was for her to determine how much weight to attach to them. In fact, as we have seen, she did not attribute determinative weight to other of them. As her judgment makes clear (judgment, para 68) their impact was merely to “add … weight to the decision that I have come to.”

This is a very difficult one. I have no doubt that prior to 2013, the decision to place B with her sibling (having ruled out her parents for reasons that we don’t know about) would have been an arguably correct decision both on the facts and the law. I don’t see how it does square with Re B.

Let’s remind ourselves what the test for making a Placement Order is, as set down by the Supreme Court

“only in exceptional circumstances and where motivated by overriding requirements pertaining to the child’s welfare, in short, where nothing else will do”: see Re B paras 74, 76, 77, 82, 104, 130, 135, 145, 198, 215.

But also the apparent dilution of that by the Court of Appeal in Re W 2016 that welfare analysis and evaluation is actually the be-all and end-all

The phrase is meaningless, and potentially dangerous, if it is applied as some freestanding, shortcut test divorced from, or even in place of, an overall evaluation of the child’s welfare. Used properly, as Baroness Hale explained, the phrase “nothing else will do” is no more, nor no less, than a useful distillation of the proportionality and necessity test as embodied in the ECHR and reflected in the need to afford paramount consideration to the welfare of the child throughout her lifetime (ACA 2002 s 1). The phrase “nothing else will do” is not some sort of hyperlink providing a direct route to the outcome of a case so as to bypass the need to undertake a full, comprehensive welfare evaluation of all of the relevant pros and cons

I think that it is POSSIBLE for a Court to decide that, for B, her overriding requirement is to be placed with her sibling, and no other placement option is able to deliver that and therefore that nothing else but adoption will do. But neither the Trial Judge nor the Court of Appeal actually spell that out.

The case reads like a straight welfare shootout (a well-considered and thoughtful shootout, but one nonetheless which doesn’t really engage with the spirit or the letter of Re B)
And of course, there’s a counter argument to that. If the Courts are saying that placement with a sibling is such a powerful factor that it can override other factors, then what happens with all those cases where the LA care plan is to split a sibling group and the only way they can stay together is to be with a parent – even where the quality of care would fall below ‘good enough’

If having the sibling relationship endure is a reason to discount ‘viable and realistic’ family members on the one hand, then why is it not a reason for preferring a family placement to a placement in care where the family placement would keep them together?

OR, as happens frequently – one child is young enough to be adopted, but another is to be placed in foster care – and the parents understandably would want both children placed together. In those scenarios, unlike B and H, the sibling group will actually have met and have a relationship.

[These are all cases where the well-known authority of Sauce for Goose v Sauce4Ganda 1621 may be deployed]

(I’ll stress again that the Court of Appeal are not saying here that the sibling placement MUST triumph over family placement or that it MUST be given greater weight – they are saying that the Judge in this case was ABLE to decide this the way she did, because she had very carefully thought about the evidence and the law. Another Judge could decide the reverse in a similar set of facts, provided they very carefully think about the evidence and the law. It is NOT sibling rights beat family rights. It is NOT that. )

I think the treatment of ‘nothing else will do’ is a bit of a Jedi hand-wave here. We are getting closer and closer to the old state of play – which was ‘what decision is the best for the child’s welfare’ and farther away from what the Supreme Court were talking about with adoption and placement orders being a very high bar that the State have to meet.

In the meantime, expect any case where a sibling has previously been adopted to have urgent enquiries being prompted by the social worker or Guardian as to whether those adopters put themselves forward for this child. The Court CAN take account of it if there’s a definite commitment to do so (even though they might not be matched by Panel). What is the Court going to do if the adopters of the siblings say that they are ‘open to it’ or ‘thinking it over’? Can they give that any weight at all?


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24 responses

  1. ashamedtobebritish

    Shaky ground…

    It would be interesting to know if/why I and R did not adopt H

    • Don’t know, doesn’t sound like they came forward and were rejected. Maybe parents didn’t tell them about H at the time, maybe they had other stuff going on in their life that made the timing wrong for them. Sometimes parents don’t believe adoption is really going to happen and don’t reach out to all family members, and with B they knew it could happen again so brought more family in. Don’t know

  2. This was an appeal. What were the errors of law, errors of fact or aspects of discretion in the judgment below which were plainly wrong? If it is just that the parents (and anyone feels very sorry for them, or could do if we knew more of background) wanted another bite at the cherry in a higher court, why were they given leave to appeal?

    • Not plainly wrong any longer, just wrong. And on the face of it, the decision looked like the sort of beauty parade that re t says is not permitted, but important point of law as to whether the sibling is a magnetic factor. Very proper appeal, particularly given that the test in Re B doesn’t seem to have been articulated

  3. ashamedtobebritish

    Another option would be to place B with I and R as there seems to be no problem with that, while promoting meaningful contact with H

  4. If adoptions were “open” so that parents knew where their children were going and who they were going to that would ease much of the pain for all concerned.
    It would also allow the sensible solution proposed by” Ashamed to be British”,namely placing with relatives and frequent contact with the sibling !

    • I think you will be interested in the BASW report on adoption. I will be posting about it on Monday

      • I read the BASW report and Eureka I actually found a chink of light hidden amongst the jargon ! As below:-

        Recommendation 3: The current model of adoption should be reviewed, and the
        potential for a more open approach considered
        The Enquiry highlighted the need to think about how we might do adoption differently. It
        was questioned whether there was a need for so many birth families to be removed so starkly
        from children’s lives as they often are. It was asked whether another way could be found
        that gave children safety and security but kept meaningful connection with birth families.

        The worst and most cruel feature of forced adoption is that parents (and especially mothers of new born babies) lose their children for (mostly) the rest of their lives not knowing even whether their kids are dead or alive ,prospering or in jail etc etc
        Many parents would submit to adoption if promised (in writing) .”If you stop opposing the adoption and agree to it and work with us we will guarantee twice yearly supervised face to face contact with your child following the adoption.”
        Rather than risk complete separation many parents I help would agree to this.

      • Think you will be interested in the comparison with N Ireland where report says four to six times per year direct contact is the norm

  5. my name is ian josephs or forced-adoption

  6. The Enquiry heard the picture in relation to direct contact is very different in Northern Ireland
    where judges may recommend such contact takes place, sometimes between four to six times a
    year. Adoptive parents and social workers expressed concerns about the automatic assumption
    of facilitating direct contact at this frequency given the context of inadequate support services.

    Yes Andrew I saw this but it does NOT say direct contact between birth parent and adopted child is the norm. I wish it did ! The judge can recommend it but seldom does is the message I get back from victims in N.Ireland ! If adoptions are forced on birth parents they should all be “open” and if that idea is rejected then at least some form of contact between parent and child should be obligatory!

  7. The other side of the coin is, where do the relinquished baby cases ( roughly half a dozen reported in the last couple of years ) fit in, when the mother wants to arrange a discreet and dignified adoption and secure finality for herself, the most recent being Re M&N [2017]EWFC 31 in May last year?
    In one of those judgments the President said that there had been more of these cases recently; while he was still Munby J, he refused to force a mother relinquishing a child to provide information for identity purposes. The mother in M&N, described as an educated professional woman, was also as economical with information as possible, including refusing to provide details of extended family.
    The fact remains that particularly if abortion is to be restricted as some people wish, then the privacy of those who want to relinquish a child at birth has to be respected and in some European jurisdictions (albeit where there is no forced adoption) this is in fact the case – I believe that in some there even remain means whereby a child can be abandoned.
    One size does not fit all and some people do not want the possibility of being sought out in twenty years time, much less contact.

    • A good question. Does a parent have a right not to be contacted if they don’t want to be, and how can that be managed?

    • ashamedtobebritish

      There is resolution to this.
      When a child is adopted, they can apply to the court on their original birth certificate for information, it’s easy enough to put a code in that states the birth mother does not wish to have contact ever, the court can then relay that.
      In any other case the adopted may apply for this information, it costs £10 to get a copy of the original birth certificate with all details on it.

      In this age of technology, all one has to do is hire a private detective if they’re that determined to know all

  8. But maybe a child has the right to find out where he or she came from .This mania for privacy should not prevent any adopted child from finding out who his or her parents were . Forbidding contact between parent and child at all ages and in many different circumstances may give a little power kick to those who enforce it but misery and frustration often results for those who are victims of it !

    • I think that’s a good matter for proper national debate, particularly in an online world where any capable child is going to be able to find the parents on social media if they want to. I suspect that level of control over contact will organically disappear and it may be better to properly debate and think about it. Im mindful that a generation ago nobody told children they were adopted until they hit maturity and we know now that was a mistake. We can’t simply say that we do X because X is the way we do it and must be open to improvement and change. With non violent parents, I’d really like to see genuinely open adoptions – that’s my personal view. Actual contact, adopters and parents able to talk with each other.

      • YES ! I actually agree with Suespicious this time ! Open Adoptions would be a great improvement on the present system of deliberate State cruelties where a mother who has broken no laws but has a violent expartner in jail can lose her newborn baby at birth for adoption by strangers and never know subsequently if it is alive or dead !
        In cases where a mother voluntarily relinquished her child for adoption I can think of no reason why the authorities should at a later date bluntly refuse to give the adoptee any détails of who the parents were etc

      • If it is a matter for debate then both sides have to listen respectfully to each other and accept the other party may have good reason for the view they have.
        If the religious right have their way – Trump’s speech this past week, for example – then there may well be future restrictions on abortion, and I am not now talking just about stranger rape cases, which probably are relatively few in number.
        More likely, we are talking about those in a bad relationship, those who won’t know their way around the system, who don’t have the means to pay privately or travel to a jurisdiction where they can get a termination, or don’t have the strength of will to demand immediate appointments or resist the religious exhortation – those women who are going to be messed around by the pro-lifers till it’s too late.
        If so, we are going to be faced with cases where a woman is going to be compelled to carry an unwanted pregnancy to term and I can’t see a greater violation of privacy than that. Such women are quite likely to want to relinquish that child immediately, to refuse to co-operate with life story work, and to take whatever steps are practicable to ensure that the child cannot trace them. A change of name, relocation, very limited social media presence are the obvious steps that spring to mind. Even dropping out of sight of extended family; I’m quite sure the mother’s parents would keep her whereabouts secret.
        There are two people at least involved in a relinquishment case and it should not be assumed that the interests of one will always outweigh the other.

      • My personal view is one High Court Judge from start to finish when the intention of the LA is adoption for a child, obviously from the out-set the LA know their intentions so why the court hopping, different judges does not make sense and not in the best interests of a child, family or case in fact wide open to injustice.
        Pass the buck, wide open, giving judges excuses, I had nothing to do with the injustice, I was not responsible that this and that happened to your family, so it has to be a flawed system, NOT! children and families deserve better, there should be no need for this site and the many, many others discussing children and family cases, injustices should never happen in the first place, Children are too precious, they are the future of a country

      • ashamedtobebritish

        You’d have to have a different judge in an appeal or you’d have the same judge deciding whether he’s was wrong or not

  9. Or perhaps, following on from my last, we adopt European practice. We abandon forced adoption. The majority of the birth families in the reported relinquishment cases of the last two years were Eastern European and it is stated by implication in the judgments that their expectation was that the adoption would be closed.
    Permanence for a child compulsorily taken into public care could be achieved by way of special guardianship in which case they would remain a member of their original family and have such contact as is appropriate.
    Everyone would be going into it with their eyes open.
    Only relinquished children would be adopted and they could be supported appropriately in being told that Mr and Mrs X chose them etc etc. Michael Gove and his brother are successful adoptions and apparently have never shown any interest whatever in life story/identity work. Mr Gove rejected it outright.

    • CADBURY CAT is quite correct .Abolish forced adoption !! The trouble is that there is so much money sloshing round in the adoption industry that those who profit from it will prevent any such changes in the near future !

      • If people have a target to achieve they will set out to meet it. From that the Law of Unintended Consequences flows and by now the legislature should have grasped the point, I would have thought.

      • My grandsons case was Legally aided
        The whole case was in the name of a child that had never legally existed
        BUT I bet when all the legal involved claimed their expenses from the legal aid board they claimed for it in my grandsons legally birth registered name?

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