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Private law costs order

I don’t often write about private law, but this is a Court of Appeal case considering whether or not a costs order should be made when one party made allegations that were completely without substance that incurred significant costs in investigating them.

https://www.bailii.org/ew/cases/EWCA/Civ/2025/183.html

Re E : Children: Costs 2025 EWCA Civ 183

The issue was further complicated because the Court did make SOME findings about the father, and also there were cross-allegations by father against the mother of parental alienation.

  1. The parents married in 2011 and have four children. They are boys aged 11 and 10, a girl aged 8 and a boy aged 3. The parents separated in January 2022 after the father told the mother that he had been unfaithful. The children have remained with the mother and, although they had warm feelings for their father until the separation, they have not seen him since.
  2. After the separation, the parents made allegations of domestic abuse against each other. The mother alleged physical abuse, coercive and controlling behaviour, emotional abuse and rape. The father alleged physical abuse, coercive and controlling behaviour and emotional abuse.
  3. In addition, by April/May 2022 the mother was making allegations that the father had physically and sexually abused A and B and, to a more limited degree, C and that he enabled other men to sexually abuse A and B as part of a “sex-ring”. The father alleged that the mother was making up these allegations in order to alienate the children from him.
  4. As a result of the allegations, and particularly those of sexual abuse, the local authority and police became involved. The police conducted three ABE interviews with A and two with B. Their investigation did not lead to any action against the father.
  5. As a domestic abuse complainant, the mother was entitled to legal aid. The father, though of modest means, did not have that benefit. By the end of the fact-finding hearing he had incurred legal costs of over £75,000 without so far obtaining any order for contact.

The mother’s allegations that the father had sexually abused the children and drawn them into a sex-ring had no substance of any kind.

  1. The judgment runs to 68 pages, and it is only necessary to extract observations and conclusions that are relevant to the issue of costs:
  2. The judge summarised his findings at paragraph 7:

i. The mother had made eight witness statements in which details of her allegations had emerged in a piecemeal way. She gave accounts of statements made to her by A and B that described the most serious kinds of sexual abuse. There was, the judge said, considerable force in the argument that the allegations only emerged once it became clear to the mother that this was the only way to prevent the father from having contact with the children.
ii. The mother denied that she knew who had abused her sons. She further denied that she had told the court in October 2023 that she knew their names, but the judge did not accept that.
iii. The mother gave evidence over two days. The judge found that she was not a compelling witness and that some of her evidence was simply untrue. She was vague, confused, passive and easily led. Her answers were rambling and avoidant. This was in marked contrast to her clear and determined approach outside the courtroom when trying to persuade professionals that the children had been sexually abused, and her anger when they did not accept her viewpoint.
iv. The judge’s impression of the father’s evidence was mixed. His evidence about his behaviour towards the mother during the course of their relationship and his behaviour after separation was unconvincing, and his evidence in support of his allegations of domestic abuse against the mother was entirely unconvincing, indeed untruthful. In contrast, his evidence when challenged about the allegations of
sexual abuse against his children was markedly different. He was upset, and appeared bemused and defeated. He could not understand why anyone would believe him to have perpetrated such gross abuse upon his children or how anyone could put such ideas into their heads. His responses on this issue appeared measured, appropriate and genuine.
v. The judge described the case as extremely troubling. The children’s accounts of abuse, which he considered in detail, were not convincing. However (at paragraph 184):
“The mother has convinced herself that the father sexually abused her children. Secure in her belief that the central allegation is true, she has pressed relentlessly for other professionals to accept her perspective and act accordingly. When they have not acted or not acted in the way that she has wanted, she has redoubled her efforts. She has, in my judgment, pressured her children to ‘start talking’. She has convinced them that the father is a bad person and that he poses a danger to her and to them. The father’s actions in attending the property and threatening the mother, once seen by the children or relayed to them, have reinforced that view.”

When it came to the original trial Judge considering the father’s application for costs, the judgment says this:-

The judge directed himself in some detail on the conventional legal principles in respect of costs in cases of this kind. He expressed considerable sympathy for the father’s position and accepted that the financial cost of the proceedings had taken an enormous toll on him. However, he made no order for costs, giving these reasons:

“59. In my analysis, these are proceedings where both parents have made cross-allegations against each other. In respect of each parent I made findings on some of their allegations but did not make findings on all of them. The fact-finding hearing had not been listed just to consider the mother’s allegations of sexual abuse against the father. They had also been listed to consider the mother’s allegations of domestic abuse against the father, the father’s allegations of domestic abuse against the mother and the father’s allegations of alienation against the mother.

  1. As confirmed to me today, Mr Davis has not sought to argue that any different legal test should apply whether ultimately any costs order is to be paid by the mother herself or, as in his submissions in this case, by the State through application to the Legal Aid Agency. The principles I must therefore apply are the same.
  2. Whilst there is some force in the submissions made on behalf of the father, ultimately I do not consider this to be a case where I should exercise my discretion to make a costs order in his favour. This is for the following reasons:
    (1) The reasons I gave to adjourn the hearing in January 2024 were not reasons that related in any way to the mother’s litigation conduct. I accept, therefore, the submission that is made on this point on behalf of the mother. The decision to adjourn was the result of late or non-disclosure by third parties, namely, the police and the Local Authority. Arguably, it is them not the mother who should have faced a costs application in relation to the adjournment.
    (2) This is not a straightforward case where allegations were made by one party and found to be proved against the other party, or else where allegations were made by one party and dismissed in
    their entirety. The mother did establish some of her allegations of domestic abuse against the father despite his denial. He has been found previously to have harassed her in breach of a non-molestation order. The father did not establish his allegations of domestic abuse against the mother which had no substance as I found and were very much raised as a counterweight against the allegations she had made against him. Each party succeeded and failed in part on the cases advanced before me.
    (3) I made critical observations about each parent in the course of my judgment. My observations of the mother are at paragraphs 82 to 85 of the judgment and of the father, at 142 to 148. I concluded that neither parent was a wholly reliable witness.
    (4) The mother is right to point out that my finding in relation to the allegations of sexual abuse in relation to the children was not that the mother had maintained allegations which she knew to be wholly false. It is, as I set out in paragraph 184 of my judgment, that she has convinced herself that he did these things. This is an important distinction.
    (5) The conclusions that I reached about both parents are set out in the concluding part of my judgment. As I have said, I concluded that the mother had convinced herself that the father sexually abused the children. So far as the father is concerned, he did not escape in any sense unscathed from the observations in my judgment. I said this about him at paragraph 186:
    “The father was aggressive and threatening towards the mother in the course of their relationship
    and after it ended. This behaviour included threats of violence towards her, threats to damage their home, throwing a bottle to the floor and a glass at her door. The father pressured the mother for sex during the marriage. He threatened to look elsewhere for sex and his infidelity in December 2021 brought the parties’ marriage to an end. The father kicked A on the foot in anger on at least one occasion”.
  3. In conclusion, therefore, this case represents a much more mixed and nuanced picture than as presented on behalf of the father and can be distinguished from those cases where costs orders have previously been made against one party in favour of the other. I appreciate the father feels that there is an injustice in that the mother has been entitled to public funding and he has not. However much sympathy I have for that contention, it does not of itself justify an order for costs and thereby the opening of a gateway to redress that injustice through an application under s.26 to the Legal Aid Agency. As Mr Davis rightly accepts, that would not be a good reason for making a costs order in his favour.
  4. I therefore make no order as to costs insofar as the fact-finding process is concerned.

The Court of Appeal took a different view and made a costs order that the father recover some of his costs

Analysis and conclusion

Turning to this individual case, I acknowledge the generous latitude enjoyed by a judge making an evaluative decision after a substantial trial, and remind myself of the limits on the role of an appeal court and the obligation to read extempore judgments sensibly and not over-critically. It should also be noted that, with this one exception, none of the judge’s primary decisions in this difficult case has been subject to any appeal by either party.

To start with, the judge was right to take account of the whole picture. The cross-allegations of domestic abuse were sadly commonplace, and were never likely to lead to a costs award. Similarly, and in disagreement with the father’s argument, there was in the light of the overall findings no basis for penalising the mother in costs because she failed to prove that he had raped her.

However, the judge should have acknowledged that the mother’s extreme allegations that the father had sexually abused the older children and had handed them over to a paedophile sex ring were of an entirely different character and that different costs considerations consequently arose. His starting-point that “these were proceedings where both parents had made cross-allegations” was an inadequate reflection of the true position. He should have recognised, firstly, that there was no equivalence between the sexual allegations involving the children and the other allegations, and secondly, that those allegations had completely transformed the proceedings, leading to extraordinary delay and hugely increased costs. He should also have appreciated that the adjournment of the January hearing was a direct result of the mother’s pursuit of the sexual allegations, and that it was incorrect to say that it was not related in any way to her litigation conduct. In short, he should have separated out the unfounded sexual allegations involving the children.

I also accept that the judge was mistaken in treating the fact that he had made a mixture of findings as a reason for making no order for costs, without considering his power to order that a proportion of the father’s costs should be paid.

The judge placed significant weight on his assessment of the mother’s motivation: see paragraph 61(4), referring back to paragraph 184 of the fact-finding judgment. He differentiated between allegations known to be wholly false and allegations that she had convinced herself were true. That is a subtle distinction, and I cannot see how it avails the mother in this case. The Delphic finding that she had convinced herself that the father had sexually abused the children, not further explained, could not be the end of the matter. In the first place, the court was not considering whether the mother regarded her litigation conduct to be reprehensible or unreasonable, but making its own objective assessment. As Staughton LJ said in Re R:

“The real point that has been argued before us seems to me to be this: the judge evidently found that the father had behaved unreasonably in the litigation. I do not doubt that Mr R genuinely believes that his arguments are perfectly reasonable. I do not question his good faith, but I am afraid I do agree with the judge that they did not, in reality, represent a reasonable attitude for the father to take.”
In any case, the judge’s approach to the mother’s motivation was in my view unduly indulgent. He should have taken into account a number of striking features of the litigation:

i. The link that he had identified between the sexual allegations and the mother’s realisation that this was the only way to prevent the father from having contact with the children.
ii. The lack of any objective foundation for the sexual abuse allegations, other than the children’s statements under pressure.
iii. The mother’s lie about knowing the names of other members of the paedophile ring, which was bound to cast doubt on the genuineness of her belief.

iv. Her choice to make lurid allegations (including that the father had involved a child in bestiality with a family pet) that she neither pursued nor withdrew.
v. Her continuous production of witness statements, arising from her pressure on the children to ‘start talking’ and leading to the court having to accommodate the results of repeated interviewing of the children.
vi. Her deletion of a recording of one child before it could be heard by other adults, supposedly to protect his privacy.
vii. The court’s “considerable doubt” about the genuineness of a drawing that the mother said had been made by a child.
viii. The wholly unsatisfactory quality of the mother’s oral evidence in relation to the sexual abuse allegations.

In the light of these matters the judge’s conclusion that the mother’s litigation conduct was not reprehensible or unreasonable cannot stand. We cannot remit the question to the judge, who is continuing to hear the substantive proceedings, and there is no reason why we should not reach our own conclusion.

After the hearing, we received submissions from the parties about the scope of our order. A number of the Family Court hearings led to orders that there be no order for costs, and it would not have been open to the judge to disturb them. Other orders were silent as to costs, and it was open to the judge and to this court to make orders in respect of those costs at a later stage. The same applies to the order of 6 February 2024, made at the end of the abandoned fact-finding hearing, by which the costs were reserved.

Taking all matters into account, I would substitute for the judge’s costs order an order in these terms:

The mother shall pay half of the father’s costs of the Children Act proceedings up to 3 July 2024, excluding the costs of the father’s representation at any hearing in respect of which an order was made that there be no order for costs; this order shall not be enforced against the mother without the leave of the Family Court.
That portion of the father’s costs is the least that can be properly ordered in the circumstances as a reflection of the impact on the proceedings of the mother’s false allegations that the father and others have sexually abused the children, and the father’s cross-allegation of alienation. I repeat that the costs order does not relate to the mother’s allegation of rape.

To that extent, I would allow the appeal.